A Tribute to my Husband

I met SQ 10 years ago through a mutual friend. After dating him for less than 3 months, I knew, in my heart, that I wanted to marry him. You might think it's silly or outright impossible, but I just knew he would make the perfect husband. SQ is not, and never was, your typical romantic boyfriend who sweeps girls off their feet with flowers and sweet words. In fact, he rarely says "I love you," to me, buys me flowers, or plans any special night outs. Sometimes I get so angry and disappointed because he didn't do any of the things I wished he would have done. I ended up consoling myself that SQ is a "practical" type of guy and he's not into any of the "surface" things....

During this past month, when I got really sick, I was reminded why I married SQ in the first place. During the 24 days I spent in the hospital, SQ stayed with me 24/7. When I was in the ICU, he slept on a chair just so he can stay overnight in the room with me. He tended to my every need, watching over me, making me comfortable, encouraging me to stay strong. As much pain and suffering I was going through, I'm sure he felt it equally.

After my discharge from the hospital, SQ is balancing between being a husband and a father. He has been taking care of Sarah day and night - feedings around the clock, diaper changes, bath time...the whole 9 yards. In addition, he has been doing laundry, taking out the trash, and all the little chores around the house! I have never heard him once complain about being tired or sleepy, or the fact that he has to do everything. I feel guilty and helpless because all I can do is to watch him do the work. But all SQ wanted from me was for me to get better and smile.

To my SQ - I know you're not good at expressing your feelings, but I know. I know how much you care about me, how much you love me and Sarah. You have shown us what unconditional love is, through your actions, not through words. I promise that everything will get better and we will enjoy our days ahead. Love you with all my heart!